Helen's online persona is that of a young woman from Lagos who uses dating sites to connect with potential partners. She initiates conversations with genuine-seeming interest, quickly building rapport through attentive and caring communication. Helen's strategy centers on fast emotional engagement, making her targets feel valued and important from the start.

She shares personal stories filled with challenges such as health issues or financial crises, designed to evoke sympathy and prompt offers of help. Helen's requests for money are usually framed as urgent and necessary' making it difficult for targets to refuse without feeling guilty. She assures them these are temporary measures and often talks about a hopeful future together.

Helen is careful not to provide verifiable details and often deflects when asked for proof, using excuses like poor internet connectivity or personal privacy. This allows her to maintain the illusion of honesty while keeping her true circumstances hidden.

Her messages are frequent and emotionally charged, reinforcing the bond and increasing the likelihood of compliance. When met with hesitation, Helen may use guilt or emotional appeals to push the target toward sending money.

Recognizing Helen's approach-rapid intimacy combined with urgent financial needs-is essential. Staying vigilant and refusing to share sensitive information or funds can help avoid falling prey to her scams.